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topic posted Fri, October 16, 2009 - 1:34 PM by  lisa
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I have a problem, not long ago I was seeing a sagittarian man (I am also a sag,) It was all going well and he was all over me for months. Then I had sex with him, quite soon after he has been avoiding me and hasn't contacted me or answered my calls I am finding it very difficult to deal with as I am usually the one doing this shit. Has any one else been out with another sag because after this experience I think I am sticking to the leos!
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  • Re: ditched

    Sat, October 17, 2009 - 1:09 AM
    Well, if he is a good sag (a sag with morals, like 90% of us are) then he saw after having sex with you that the relationship had gone to a new level, maybe it all went to fast.

    Also i could not feel sorry for you even if i tried, seeing as you do this shit to other people to.
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      Re: ditched

      Sat, October 17, 2009 - 3:48 PM
      "Also i could not feel sorry for you even if i tried, seeing as you do this shit to other people to."

      Yeah, I have to say my first thought was, "Well, I guess the universe is trying to show you a mirror." My guess is that you were wondering about the nature of your relationships or some such.
  • Re: ditched

    Sun, October 18, 2009 - 6:20 PM
    make no illusions about the situation lisa. the dragon has come to spit fire back into your
    face for what you've done in the past. lets just say he returns your phone call then what? if
    the shoe was on the other foot would you want someone who is a little sissy waiting around
    for you to throw him a bone.
  • Re: ditched

    Fri, October 23, 2009 - 9:55 PM
    I have dated fellow Sags and not all act the way your's did. I think you just got your

    just desserts this time around lol. Sagittarian men will love you with an open and honest

    heart. Respect and understand your need for freedom. You won't find any other willing

    guy to throw caution to the wind ride the wild ride of life with. Leo will get you for awhile

    but some Sag traits will drive them away.
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      Re: ditched

      Sat, October 24, 2009 - 4:34 AM
      Who Cares!! Don't waste Ur time.

      I would take a look @ the situation. U say U are the one that Usually does this? If so, Why do you do this? I would GEt the Most OuT of this and try to learn something About Urself. Ask the Hard Questions, Interrogate urSelf--haha--sEriously.

      In the Process of self-Discovery you INdirectly may UndeStand wut Happened with This SaG dUde. Analyzing your Actions May Give U much more than Figur'in Out another Person's aCtions. Or Not but At least U will Understand Urself BettEr in The eNd!

      sincerely,
      gianna
  • Re: ditched

    Sun, October 25, 2009 - 9:19 AM
    He is back now but I fear I have blown things my fear of commitment and also rejection is not allowing me to tell this guy how I really feel. I am sure he thinks I just want something casual and as he's a sagittarian, theres a big possibility that he only wants something casual I have been going along with this pretence. If I tell him how I really feel it may frighten him off. And I do take on the comments about his behaviour mirroring my own but sometimes it's not always the fear of commitment that makes me do things like this it is actually the fact that i am frightened of rejection. Can 2 sag's ever work because it's definately not just fireworks in the bedroom I am predicting!
    • Re: ditched

      Sun, October 25, 2009 - 2:34 PM
      Lisa it looks like you haven't completely blown things if he's not avoiding you anymore.

      Putting yourself out there and telling him how you feel I know is hard but it needs to be

      done. How else will you know if he feels the same and if it's even worth pursuing

      anything further. I would definitely address why the hell he went m.i.a. after you two

      had sex though. Two Sags can work but it totally depends on the two people involved.
      • Re: ditched

        Fri, October 30, 2009 - 7:53 AM
        I am a Sag and have been in a wonderful loving relationship with a fellow sag male for 3 years now................it was fireworks from the get go and that hasn't subsided yet..........

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