Cancer female here inquiring about a Sadge

topic posted Wed, April 29, 2009 - 10:19 AM by  Erin
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I'm sort of seeing male Sadge...incredible sweetheart but and advancing with much trepidation. He keeps asking me what I'm so afraid of with him and I just cannot pinpoint what it is. You know how we Cancers are...we are cautious because we don't want to get hurt. Mind you, I'm not a homebody Cancer. I love adventure and humor; but when it comes to my heart (after a recent heartbreak) I'm a little nervous--especially because he seems too good to be true. He's so obviously into me, its really scary.

What advice can you give me about a 30 year old Sadge with a 7 month old baby from a previous relationship?
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Erin
SF Bay Area
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  • Re: Cancer female here inquiring about a Sadge

    Wed, April 29, 2009 - 2:19 PM
    the centaur loves with no limits. we are not too good to be true, for our lovings always arise straight like an arrow from the heart. believe what he tells you, feel him in your heart and stay away from the maze of your worried mind.

    when there is love and fear you can only fear love or love fear.

    so if you let the fear of being hurt hold you back from connecting in sacred heart space with this man, you will miss out on opportunity to grow and learn to have your heart open to all possibilities.

    when we show deep interest we mean it. but when it is not met with an equal openness, we tend to free ourselves from the imbalance that it creates, and we run wild a free again, trusting that one day, the one who will see our sincerity is out there somewhere.

    my ascendant is in cancer, so i understand where you are coming from. trust. surrender to love. free yourself from fear and expectation.

    LOVE!
    • Re: Cancer female here inquiring about a Sadge

      Wed, June 24, 2009 - 6:48 AM
      I'm afraid to love him with no limits. Last couple of times I did that, my heart was broken and my--what seemed like--balanced life was totally off. I almost lost my job from so much distraction.
      • Re: Cancer female here inquiring about a Sadge

        Wed, June 24, 2009 - 6:48 AM
        By the way...he's getting me there...to fall for him. It's been 5 months and he's been slowly chipping his way into my shell.
        • Re: Cancer female here inquiring about a Sadge

          Thu, June 25, 2009 - 7:52 AM
          hi Erin!
          i'd try to find out if he has any water signs in his chart that could help him be more emotionally centered for you,
          i'm a sagg with cancer rising dating a cancer man,
          sometimes he is too emotional for me, and i feel like his crying during our fights is to emotinally blackmail me at times but i guess my rising sign helps me be less dismissive of emotion in general,
          sometimes us sagg's don't like the heavy weight of emotion and try to escape from it
          hope this helps you : )

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